Let’s answer one of the men’s most asked questions- “Does she like me?” That’s right. Today, we’ll help you figure out signs a girl doesn’t like you.
And since we don’t want you missing out on a potential match, we’ll also be sharing one really obvious sign a girl is actually into you. Curious yet? Of course, you are! Let’s get started.
5. Her Manners Tell YouAnd by manners, I meant her body language and mannerisms when she’s around you. Just like most guys, some girls may find it hard to let you down right there and then so you have to learn to read between the lines. When a girl likes you, her gestures and subtle movements will always be towards you. There are 3 major body language signs to watch out for. and when we talk about eye contact. A study headed by Stephen Janik and RodneyWellens at the University of Miami in Researchers in Florida found that we focus 43 percent of our attention on a person’s appearance eye. And women have always sensed that their eyes are powerful weapons for attraction. If you haven’t noticed it yet, they do more to enhance their eyes than men.
You got that one right, Beardy. Think concealer, eyeshadow, eyeliner, and mascara. When it comes to eye contact, non-verbal cue enthusiasts swear by the 70-30 rule. If she’s making eye contact 70% of the time, you’re in the green. Any less than that could be a sign she’s not into you. Weapons of attraction, huh, Kaye? We have our ways. The game is playable by two players. I know just how to make any girl crazy for a guy too. Next, notice if her torso is pointed away from you. According to Steven Keyl, a body language expert and author of the book “The Human Whisperer”, We expose our torsos to those who make us feel good, but will immediately turn to the side when someone we dislike approaches. Shunning or ‘turning our back’ on someone indicates negativity toward a person. So, if she doesn’t face you when they speak to you or if she seems to be scanning the room instead of paying attention to what you’re saying, it could be a sign a girl doesn’t like you. Third, listen to her voice.
According to research, both men’s and women’s voices lower when they’re talking to someone they’re attracted to. In the study, researchers listened in on 30 speed-daters meetings at a cafe and noticed that women lowered their voices only for men they find attractive. Here’s a tip if you want to know how to get girls to like you: talk to them with a low voice. Think James Bond or Michael B. Jordan. So, the next time you’re out on a date, if you want to know whether or not your date likes you back, listen out for a drop-in the pitch of her voice. Now that you know the body language to look out for. Take your dating skills up a notch with the help of this video where we shared ways how to make a girl crazy for you. Check it out.
4. Who? Me? This one can be very subtle so you have to pay attention a little harder. One of the many signs a girl doesn’t like you is if she pretends that she has no idea that you like her. Like I said, turning someone down isn’t everyone’s strong suit so she might resort to subtle acts of rejection. It doesn’t matter if you keep telling her corny jokes or if you don’t look exactly like Brad Pitt when a girl likes you, she’ll reciprocate your love language, not ignore it. In fact, a behavioral study conducted by the University of Kansas revealed that flirting really is a major sign of attraction.
According to Jeffrey Hall, the study’s lead author, flirting is an outgrowth of your feeling towards another person and it’s something you can’t easily hinder. Maybe she never responds to your “good morning” and “goodnight” texts. Or she never returns any of your calls. Perhaps, she already knows very well that you like her but she’s actively pretending she can’t see it because she values you as a friend. She might be thinking “If he likes me, he might get the wrong idea if I keep entertaining him.” If that’s the case, welcome to the Friendzone, my brother. If you’ve been trying to flirt up a storm and she seems to be keeping your relationship platonic, it’s one of the telling signs a girl doesn’t like you.
You’ll notice these subtle signs of rejection by her reactions and responses to your flirty messages or statements. The least you could get from her is a polite thank you. But if a girl doesn’t like you, you won’t catch her being naughty, flirty, or even a little bit reciprocal. I mean, it’s not always a bad thing. At least you get to keep her as a friend, right? That’s better than nothing if you ask me. If she keeps ignoring your intentions, it’s time to back away and turn the other way around. After all, there is a lot of fish in the sea. I’m sure there’s someone for everyone.
3. She Doesn’t Let You in Her Bubble Have you been asking yourself “does my crush like me?” lately? If your crush is keeping you at arm’s length, it’s one of the many signs a girl doesn’t like you back. Ever heard of the word “proxemics”? Proxemics is the study of personal space and the degree of separation that individuals maintain between each other in social situations. In the dating scene, it’s a measure of how attracted someone is to you. According to dating coach johnny Cassel, if you’re standing and chatting to two people, one of whom you like more, you’re subconsciously (or perhaps even consciously) going to stand near the one youprefer or lean in more proactively.
Likewise, if a girl doesn’t like you, she will aim to position herself as far away from you as possible. If you’re looking for signs of attraction, this is definitely not it. If she’s keeping you out of her personal space, that’s one of the signs a girl doesn’t like you. Does she find someone else to talk to whenever you two are forced to sit next to each other? Or maybe she never wants to hang out alone with you or at your house? If she keeps avoiding you, then you are in a no-entry zone.
The best thing you can do is to back off. But if you’re still holding out hope that you’ll see signs of attraction, this video will help you know if a girl likes you. Check it out. Before we head on to our last two items, we just wanted to pause for a while to remind you that at the end of this video, we’ll be sharing one really obvious sign a girl is actually into you. You don’t want to miss out on a potential match, do you? I thought so too. Let’s continue.
2. She Doesn’t Get Personal With You Building connection is one of the key components of attraction. And one of the best ways to build a connection with someone is by asking them about their personal life. Likewise, sharing and being open about your personal views in life will help you find a common ground with the person you’re trying to connect with. If she isn’t interested in getting to know more about you and isn’t even opening up to you, that could be a sign that she’s not into you.
Psychologist Arthur Aron developed an experiment called “36 questions to fall in love” to see if two strangers can develop an intimate connection just from asking each other a series of increasingly personally asked questions. And indeed, he found out that mutual vulnerability is the key to fostering closeness. According to Aron, one key pattern associated with the development of a close relationship among peers is sustained, escalating, reciprocal, personal self-disclosure.
1. She Downplays Herself When we like someone, our natural instinct is to show off and impress the person we like by highlighting our best qualities. Often, if a girl doesn’t like a guy, she will point out all her flaws to convince you that she isn’t girlfriend material. If she downplays all her good qualities and makes sure to highlight all her bad ones, save yourself the trouble and just let her be. save yourself the trouble and just let her be. It’s not you. It’s her.
Now that you know how to tell if a girl doesn’t like you, it’s about time we share the one obvious sign a girl actually likes you back. Gentlemen, a girl genuinely likes you back if she just can’t get enough of you. If you’re still not getting it, all the signs that we mentioned have something to do with the amount of attention she gives you.
She wants you if she mirrors your body language; if she takes an interest in your personal life; if she keeps you close; and if she’s exerting the same effort for you. All you have to do now is to seal the deal. This video will show you more signs she wants you. Check it out. Do you know more signs a girl doesn’t like you? It always sucks when a girl doesn’t like you back. But now that you know better, you don’t have to waste your time on the wrong girl anymore. And once you’re ready to start dating again.
